“FORGIVE AND FORGET”
Forgiveness is letting go of the need for revenge and releasing negative thoughts of bitterness and resentment (source from: http://psychcentral.com/lib/2007/what-is-forgiveness/).
Do you believe in the saying “You cannot pleased everybody”? Even though you did everything for a certain thing there are still people gives negative criticisms instead of a positive one. Sad to know, but this is the real thing happens in people lives.
Many people say “It is too hard to forgive and forget a person who caused you a lot of pains”. Normally human knows how to feel hurt and pain to the point that when an earthly way of thinking arises, it makes him hard to forget and to forgive a person. Hatred develops and as a result, relationship and trust will be broken.
Why there are people who just kept on saying bad things against to other? Criticizing, making false gossips, back fighting and any actions that will make a person’s dignity ruined. Why they just keep silent and mind their own business? Is this the way they are living their life in this temporary world? Or maybe they don’t believe in God or if they believe so, maybe this is what makes them happy.
Brothers and sisters in Christ, living in this world are temporary because the real world is in Heaven. God created us to see His beautiful and wonderful creations. Blessed are we for we are one of God’s creations. With these, let us live in this world accordingly and righteously.
To hurt somebody is a sin as well as not to forgive. Learn to live your life without hurting someone. Learn also to forgive as what our Almighty Father does unto us. He sends His Son on earth and dies in the cross to save us from our sins.
How good it is to live without hurting somebody and live life peacefully. Start to forget and forgive those persons who caused you pain. Live life according to God’s will and never let sin come and live in your life.
Let us stop fighting and start reuniting each other for the greatest commandment of God is “Love one another as I have loved you”.